Things I Never Said To Myself


Things I Never Said To Myself is a self-love poetry collection by Duduzile Noeleen Ngwenya. The purpose of this book is to share words of love and healing, to root out the self-sabotage habits we’ve subconsciously adopted while cultivating self-esteem.

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Suppose you could get a chance to meet a past version of yourself. What would you say to them? Things I Never Said To Myself is a self-love poetry collection that shares gentle reminders of love and healing to identify the self-sabotage habits we’ve subconsciously adopted and to cultivate self-esteem. The author believes that to build healthy relationships with our future selves, we ought to heal and forgive the ones we’ve had with ourselves in the past. This way, we learn ways to have meaningful relationships with ourselves and those around us.

This book is divided into three sections:

  • growth, love, and healing reminders,
  • notes to self,
  • and affirmations.

All these aim to create a space within ourselves where we feel safe and loved for who we are. Are you ready to have that conversation with yourself?

Reviews 17

17 reviews for Things I Never Said To Myself


Firstly, thank you for writing this wonderful book. The content is outstanding and I love how clear the affirmations are and easy to read. I constantly find myself referring back when I feel down because you can actually feel the words as you read. Secondly, I highly recommend it for people battling with anxiety. The book is really encouraging and can help keep positive attitude.


Neil Naidoo

This book is original and thought provoking. These positive affirmations about self-care creates an awareness about how to constantly agree with your inner voice to radiate positivity.


You soo swift fast and effective wow I never thought ordering something would be soo easy


Your book gets me through the day being
bipolar and depressed this is a book I can’t put
down well done thank


Your service was amazing, everything was smooth and there was plenty of kindness and patience received from ordering till delivery not mentioning how my order was perfectly packaged.🥹🫶🏽 I hope you publish another one, you are a work of art in all forms.❤️

Nomfundo Khumalo

For me the service was amazing bandla. At some point I even made a mistake with the address I sent but you were completely patient with me and I felt really appreciated as a customer. I haven’t even unboxed the book because I’m saving it for my birthday, the book is THAT special pls

Katlego Sebola

Excellent service. Delivery didn’t take more than a week. The book is exceptional. The fact that you took the time to sign the books and write a little note 🙌🏼🙌🏼, need I say more.

Neo Leepile

Hi sis, I finished reading nd yhoo I never thought having deep conversations with myself has this big impact….I keep going back. I hardly tap myself on the shoulder when I hv done something good or when I hv done my best.

Page 81 😭😭😭 “Have you forgiven me”

Thank u so much 💓

Asiphe Mgedezi (verified owner)

I will definitely do the review because love ,you just gave me my best friend 🥹we having our night tea as we speak ❤️I can not wait for 3 years mna I need another one soon , I don’t normally buy books but this one just has that thing njeee 🔥🔥🔥thank you so much for this book❤️

Sandisiwe Langa

I absolutely love the fact that this book is timeless. Can always go back and read my fav pages ❤️

Kimberley Archary

This book cannot be finished. You will constantly return to it. It allows you to keep pushing through xx

Teffo Hylvester

Yoh… speechless 😭😭this book 🥹🥹 so i got this tattoo last year when i was going through some things, n whenever i get this voice in my head saying am not worth it, i jus look at it and soldier on… But after reading page 15 of this book i know exactly what to do next…Thank you so so much 🙏🏻i really needed this book

Lungile Dlamini

Your book has really been soothing my inner child. I still haven’t finished it (like savouring those last blocks of smooth chocolate ☺️) but I just want to say thank you for sharing your words with the world ❤️ We all need to speak honestly yet kindly with ourselves every now and then, and remember who we are. You are amazing, stay blessed 🙏🏾


At this certain time of us “committing generation” this book can restore your self esteem and….like let’s leave it. Life is Tadaaaa.


Such a brilliant book and perfect timing.


I just wanted to say that your book is honestly something that I needed but wasn’t aware I needed. A lot of times I swept things under the carpet and after reading certain pages in your book they couldn’t but resurface. I didn’t think that I needed to hear all that is the book. I didn’t think breathing was what I needed. I can’t but thank you for the beautiful words how the book is constructed. I don’t know how many times I’ve cried but I guess the journey to self love and self awareness has begun. Once again thank you for reigniting the love I once had for myself and the much needed realization that I’ve been so hard on myself. Thank you so very much. 😭❤️

Sabathile Sibiya

I’ve been trying to text you and express my gratitude for your book but words kinda fail me🥹. So I carry the book almost everywhere and today I was at my favourite spot the waitress asked about the book and offered to read a page randomly for me
She picked page 88
” You don’t have to keep it together all the time”. For some reason I refuse to believe it was just a coincidence🥺 I needed to hear the words so bad. What you wrote is more than just a book but It’s healing, restoration and a friend that constantly reminds me of how I should go on with this life❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much, may God bless you and give you strength, courage and wisdom so that you may continue writing. Ungakhathali🫶❤️

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